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Quoted in Reuters: How parents of multiples tackle financial challenges

Friday, September 09, 2011

I was quoted this week on Reuters Money regarding the financial challenges faced by parents of triplets/multiples.

Certainly, there are some unique and often surprising financial considerations for parents of multiples, and I thought I'd elaborate on the article's content a bit to highlight an idea that I think is important to overall well-being:  the idea of financial flexibility.

My wife and I were married for about seven years before she got pregnant.  We both had jobs that paid well, and we traveled internationally a fair amount but otherwise were relatively frugal.  For most of that time we basically lived on one salary and invested the other, with the vague notion that it would buy us some flexibility down the road.  I was specifically thinking in terms of children, but that flexibility could have applied to losing a job, a disability, or other unforeseen disruptions that are part of life.  In fact, my wife was planning to continue working at least part-time after having a child.  Fortunately, she's frugal by nature.

As it happened, we had three children at once, and the idea of my wife going back to work became far less appealing. Our vague notion of financial flexibility crystallized, and we adjusted.

O'Reillly triplets

The other thing that the birth of my children helped crystallize for me was the idea of what I wanted to be when I grew up.  Investing and personal finance had been a passionate hobby throughout my adulthood, and I had a fuzzy plan to retire early and provide investment advice to others.  The arrival of our triplets was a key driver in convincing me that there's no time like the present to chase your passion, and it also illustrated in no uncertain terms that a need existed for everyday people to get competent financial advice.  I also wanted to be a big part of my kids' life and wanted more control overy my schedule.  So I started my own financial planning firm, and I haven't looked back.  Our kids are now in first grade, and my wife has returned to work, but the flexible financial foundation we established before she got pregnant allowed us to not only survive the addition of triplets to our family, but to dictate the terms of how we managed it.  We've made a lot of sacrifices, but we value what we've gained much more than what we've sacrificed.

People every day face financial hiccups and breakdowns for which they could not possibly have planned. You can't plan for everything.  However, the earlier you start practicing the most basic of financial planning fundamentals, the more prepared you'll be for whatever life brings.  That fundamental concept?  Live Below Your Means.

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Tips for holiday gift giving from the CFP Board

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

 

As a parent of young triplets, I'm very attuned to the challenges faced by parents to succumb to the pressure that advertisers place on them via their children, particularly around the holidays.  As a parent and a financial planner, I'm also very concerned with raising children who are both financially literate and resistant to consumerism as a way of life.  Along those lines, the Certified Financial Planner Board of Standards has released five tips to re-think gift giving from Consumer Advocate Eleanor Blayney.

 

 

The tips:

Tip #1:  Use a Gift Giving Structure

Categorize gifts to help make the process more deliberate and to help guard against overspending.

Tip #2: Make a Privilege Coupon Book

These coupons would allow kids to do something special at a time of their choosing.  The privileges may or many not cost anything, but chances are they'll be very valuable.

Tip #3: Give Gifts of Time and Experience

Although we spend a lot of time together as a family, it's an ongoing challenge for us to carve out 1:1 time with our kids. When we do, they love it and it's great for us as well.  This is a great idea, and we definitely intend to adapt a combination of time/privilege coupons as part of what we give our kids this year.

Tip #4: Gifting Games

The suggestion here is to make a game of having kids take turns in opening gifts, instead of just allowing them to blow through the process to get to the toys.  Makes sense.

Tip #5: Use this Holiday for Teachable Moments


We've tried to emphasize for our kids the importance of helping others through charitable actions.  The tip also highlights the ability to teach budgeting through the gift-giving process.

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Kevin O'Reilly quoted in Good Housekeeping

Friday, July 09, 2010

 

The May issue of Good Housekeeping features a quote from Scottsdale and Phoenix-based investment advisor Kevin O'Reilly. The article discusses how to stick to a budget, and Kevin provides some thoughts on tracking ongoing expenses.

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Favorite concepts from The Millionaire Next Door

Friday, February 26, 2010

I resisted reading The Millionaire Next Door for a long time, because the title led me to the assumption that it was a get-rich-quick tome.  I was very wrong about that, and I was disappointed that I waited so long.  I’ve now read the book twice.  To be precise, on both cases I listened to an audio version that I purchase from Audible.com, a favorite service of mine.  Far from being a book in the genre of Rich Dad, Poor Dad and its ilk, the book, written by Thomas J. Stanley, Ph.D. and William D. Danko, Ph.D, grew out of hard research they had performed about the affluent in America.

I should point out that a premise of the book seems to be that achieving millionaire status is an important goal and worthy of focus.  Not all readers would deem that a worthy goal.  Nonetheless, there are lessons in this book about financial comfort and independence that are universally applicable.  The impact of stress on our immune systems and overall health is undeniable.  An Ohio State University study has found that money-related stress had a stronger link to depression symptoms among breast cancer patients than even stress related to the recent death or illness of a loved one!  Living within our means is a sure way to reduce our stress, and that is the underlying message that I took from this book.

Before I go any further, I should stress that the book was originally published in 1996, and one million dollars went a bit further then.  We’ve had three significant shocks to the financial system in the interim!  Alas, the lessons still apply, even if some of the statistics are outdated.  In fact, applying the concepts in this book would have saved a lot of people some pain over the last couple of years.

There are a few fundamental concepts that I think are important.  Beyond that, I highly recommend getting this book (preferably at the library) and reading it closely.

The basic thrust of the book is that the average millionaire in the United States probably does not fit the profile that most people imagine when they think of millionaires.

What is wealthy?

The authors appropriately define wealth in terms of net worth rather than the number of expensive vehicles in the garage or the size of the house.  In 1996, they used a crude, absolute threshold of $1 million in net worth to be considered “wealthy”.  In today’s dollars, that translates to something close to $1.4 million.  However, they define a much more informative measure that describes how wealthy a person should be given his or her age and income level.  The formula is as follows:

Expected wealth = Age multiplied by pretax annual income (from all sources except inheritance), divided by ten

This is a much more useful measure, as it factors in standard of living.  To a significant degree, this metric captures whether or not an individual is living within his or her means.

PAWs and UAWs

The authors highlight two categories of savers:  Prodigious Accumulators of Wealth and Under Accumulators of Wealth, or PAWs and UAWs.  Accumulating wealth at a rate greater than at least 75% of the population qualifies an individual as a PAW, while doing so at a pace that is less than 25% puts one in the UAW group.  To make this more universal, they offer a simpler rule:  your net worth should be twice the level of expected wealth to be a PAW, while less than half of the expected net worth would place you in the UAW range.  So, if you’re 35 and making $100,000 per year, your expected wealth is $350,000.  If your net worth exceeds $700,000, you’re a PAW.  If it is less than $175,000, you fall into the UAW category.

This highlights another distinction called out by the authors:  balance sheet affluent vs. income statement affluent.  Examples abound of doctors and lawyers making over $500,000 per year while having little in the way of sustainable assets to show for it.  More impressive are the examples of individuals who make less than $100,000 per year in earned income, but can never work another day and be comfortable.  It’s all about living within your means.  (In fairness, many examples of the latter case lived well below their means).

They earned it

Another interesting point was that 80% of the wealthy in this study were first-generation millionaires.  They did not inherit wealth.  However, the country clubs of America are littered with inheritors who are quickly blowing through the cash their parents have left them, with no means of replenishing it.

That brings us to the concept of economic outpatient care.  This was much more of a black-and-white issue for me before I had children, but the statistics are still very powerful.  Adult children who had received any kind of financial assistance from their parents suffered for it.  The authors “found that the giving of such gifts is the single most significant factor that explains lack of productivity among the adult children of the affluent."  In eight of ten occupations held by children of the affluent, households that received regular gifts had lower net worth than those who did not.  Overall, such individuals had an average of 81% of the wealth of their non-receiving counterparts, although this was skewed upward by teachers, who apparently used the gifts they received to build additional wealth.  Receivers of EOC invest less and use more credit.  They come to depend on the gifts as supplements to their income, and proceed to live at a higher level.

The book offers a lot of data that is very eye-opening, and it clearly demonstrates that the average wealthy individual is not driving around in a Ferrari.  However, the takeaway ideas are pretty straightforward and common sensical.  That doesn't mean they're easy to apply, though.  Reading this book really reinforces that common sense.  Similarly, Thomas J. Stanley's latest book - Stop Acting Rich - doesn't really present radical new concepts beyond those of The Millionaire Next Door.  It does, however, reinforce the concepts in much the same way as its predecessor.  It, too, is worth reading several times.

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Why we get ripped off

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

I just read a somewhat provocative article by Liz Pulliam Weston entitled 4 Reasons we get ripped off, and I think you should read it, too.  It’s concise, but points to some actions that consumers can take to avoid falling prey to those who would take advantage of weakness, legal or illegal.

I’ll summarize the reasons here and provide my perspective.

Americans stink at math

No argument here, but this is pretty easily fixable.  The Department of Labor states that 58% of American adults cannot add 60 cents to $1.95 and calculate a 10% tip.  That is startling.  If you fall into this category, I recommend taking a remedial math class.  My guess is that elementary school students would fare a bit better in this survey, because they’re doing these kinds of calculations more frequently.

We don't recognize sociopaths

This reason is kind of depressing and little bit scary, but undoubtedly true.  In fact, I am not sure it is only  sociopaths about whom we should be concerned.  An even bigger concern for me is the number of salespeople who do not act in the best interest of their customers but feel that is the standard way of doing business.  Sometimes the lines are not so clear.  When you buy a car, the salesperson receives a commission, and it’s entirely appropriate for her to be compensated for her effort.  How much compensation is okay?  That’s a blurry line, but too often the answer is “as much as possible”.

In my business, the norm is probably to not act in the best interest of the client.  Most financial “advisors” are simply salespeople who are not obligated to act in their clients' best interests.  In this case, my recommendation – self-serving though it may seem – is to work with an advisor who is a fiduciary and thus is legally required to act in the best interest of the client.

In general, try to understand how a salesperson is compensated and what his or her incentives are.  Do they make more money pushing certain products over others?  Is it obvious what your total cost will be?  If any of this is unclear, ask!  Furthermore, before making a purchase of consequence, develop a plan and stick to it, including a budget for the purchase.  It is much harder to be persuaded to go beyond what makes sense when you’ve established firm boundaries.

Bait-and-switch capitalism is now the norm

This is definitely a problem.  I think it’s important to try to find alternatives whenever possible, including cancelling your service in favor of a more transparent one.  Most importantly, ask about the total cost up front.  You still may get a lie in response (back to the sociopath concern), but at least that will become obvious pretty quickly after the fact and you can take steps to rectify the situation then.

Half the police force has disappeared

There is a lot of debate in our society about the appropriateness of new legislation and the size of government. Certainly, the legislative framework in several areas is imperfect. Nonetheless, I think effective enforcement is a more important consideration at this stage.

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